anyway, it's so annoying that i've decided just to get back down to my ideal weight (or a reasonable bmi) and never have to have the argument again.
i've been putting time on the rower and i finally got my lazy butt on the bike trainer today. it was a much longer workout than what i normally put in on the rower. (50 minutes compared to 15 minutes average on the rower.) but i was able to get past the endurance walls, zone out and really put in some serious work.
and damn it felt good.