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girl fight and fisticuffs

last night, i got to mediate a lot of different girl fights and then i nearly got myself into one as well. i think i did pretty well with the mediating part. i couldn't really stop anyone from running their mouths, but i kept the punches at bay and managed to get people separated before anyone got thrown out of the bar. i'm sure i would have been terrible at the fighting part, seeing as how i've a) never been in a fight and 2) never even seen a fight in real life, but there was a moment there was i was ready to jump into it if i had to.

it's weird, but kind of neat to be friends with girls who would actually have your back in a fight. hell, it's weird just to be friends with girls who'll have your back just when someone is talking shit about or to you. i don't even know nikol that well and i knew practically nothing about the situation that started it all last night, but when that bitch started bring up shit in the moment that i did know about, i was on it to defend nikol. i think it's great that i could tell the difference between standing up for the truth and standing up for my friend. it's a distinction that probably would have been less appreciated by others had push come to shove over something else, but, luckily, it didn't come to that.

still, blind love (faith in a flawed human being) is fucking stupid and i'm glad i can remember that, even after half a bottle of stoli. (yeah, menlie, i drank your back-up birthday present. lol. i fucking suck.)

you know, i'm sure it's for the best that it didn't, but i wish a fight would have broken out last night. i really think that's an experience i need in my life. it's not like i'm a violent person. i don't want to get in fights all the time. i'd just like to know what to expect if it ever does happen someday. and last night would have been a great learning experience, one where i'd surely be on the winning side.

oh well. jail, while also a potentially worthwhile learning experience, is not something i'm quite ready for.

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dano_rocks
Nov. 2nd, 2005 06:46 pm (UTC)
jail is over-rated
shakewell
Nov. 2nd, 2005 11:39 pm (UTC)
lol. i'm not sure i really understand what you mean by that. i certainly don't think there's any glamor in going to jail or the drunk tank. i just have a pretty strong feeling that i'll end up there one day for some random crime or another and i think it would be nice to get my feet wet a little at this age when i can at least pretend to be a little bad ass rather than when i'm busted shoplifting at the grocery store at 40.
dano_rocks
Nov. 3rd, 2005 12:00 am (UTC)
haha i like that "get my feet wet a little at this age when i can at least pretend to be a little bad ass" :-D At least when you are older you can talk about the "other time I was in jail...."

I really dont know what i meant by it anyway. I guess making something negative sound like a positive is fun!
surjay
Nov. 3rd, 2005 12:51 am (UTC)
Come out with us sometime and I'll get ya some fights! We stumble across a lot of em.
shakewell
Nov. 3rd, 2005 01:03 am (UTC)
i'll bet you do. though i'm not sure i could win, or even participate in the kind of fights you find yourselves in.
surjay
Nov. 3rd, 2005 01:50 am (UTC)
Come to that partay this weekend and I'll set you up with an easy one to break the ice.
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