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i used to be completely engulfed in this mindset. people think not having a significant other means being alone. people think having a significant means not being alone.

but i've felt just as alone in some of my relationships as i've ever felt outside of them. and i've known a lot of girls (and maybe even some boys) who become more isolated as they pair off.

consequently, i know a lot of people became more social with more people only after they parted from their lovers.

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more later. i'm hungry.

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joe_fisher
Sep. 28th, 2005 11:15 pm (UTC)
I totally aggree with this, so much of it depends on the relationship! I've actively sought to forge a relationship that did the opposite of closing off your ability to NOT be alone. so far I think its working very well. I totally aggree with you though.
dano_rocks
Sep. 28th, 2005 11:59 pm (UTC)
I dont understand people who are totally depend on a relationship, specifically ANY relationship, like the person who is unhappy if they are single. They will date anyone, as long as it's someone. It's absurd. You should live the life you want to, and let someone else (i.e. boyfriend/girlfriend) come along for the ride.
huggy23
Oct. 1st, 2005 01:11 am (UTC)
I can understand that theory. I am married and I only get to see J.P. about an hour a day because we have opposite work schedules. Maybe even less than that. I feel more lonely now than I ever have w/o anyone.
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